The change

Wow, so how is it that after almost 29 years of life I finally have experienced love and heartache.  I was never the type of girl who grew up planning her wedding, never picked out the names of children I might one day have.  Never wanted the whole white picket fence. 

But then one day just over 2 years ago I met the man who changed all of that. Me the “super slut” who just didn’t give a damn.  For once in my life I took my time, I didn’t cheat.  To think of it now i even started picking out the names of the future children who would drive us crazy.  The idea of doing someone else’s laundry appealed to me.  For once I was actually excited about maybe growing old with someone.  But tonight I will finally admit to myself that those things are not in my future.  O, I hung on as long as I could, but tonight I have ended it all. For real this time.  I have done nothing but cried for the past 9 months or so (NO I am NOT pregnant thank you!).  As I’m lying here tonight I can’t think about anything other than the extreme amount of pain deep inside my chest.  I can’t even describe this feeling that has surrounded me.  It has done nothing but grown for the past three months.  Hell, I haven’t been able to read and enjoy gawker.com.  This is just one of the many signs that something is truly wrong with me.  I swear ALL I wanted was to be alone.  All those years of being single and I swear I was fine. I was happy.  Man I used to be such a HAPPY person. Yes, I was a bitch, but overall I was a happy bitch.

And now.  Now I can’t go 24 hours without crying.  Now I have no one i can go to. No one to explain what the hell is going on with me.  If I were to tell anyone that I am feeling this way over a man, they wouldn’t believe me. They’d actually laugh at me. Because everyone knows I don’t give a damn about men.  I don’t understand how I let this happen to me.  Evidently I loved “too much” or “too hard”. Whatever. Hell I have never loved ANYONE, how the hell was I supposed to know there is a right and wrong way.  Figures the ONE time in my life I don’t play games, I didn’t play with him like his sole purpose on earth was to please me and LOOK. Here I am. Alone. Crying like a fucking baby.

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